is it such a difficult thing?? some people like to decide everything..some people simply refuses to decide..why? is it upbringing? peer influence? character? or simply horoscope?
Or is it because its a smart way to avoid taking up responsibility..probably so. So that when things go wrong, it will be the decision makers' fault. They will be free of responsibility. Or they might not want to decide because they have this mentality sub consciously. Or perhaps he/she wants u to decide to see whether your decision is in tune with what they have in mind. And they can slyly put it in such a way that you have to decide because its for your own good and its your responsibility to achieve that aim.
Sometimes its not a big deal to decide on many matters, but if one day you simple decide not to decide, for one reason or another, and the other person too takes his/her stand to not decide things too, nothing will happen. Right? Knowing that the other person have most of the times give in and make the decisions, despite seeing through all their plots on not wanting to make decisions, can't they for the very few times just say something to make things happen? It raelly sets me thinking why this cannot happen. Nothing happening is a small issue, but if it leads to animosity between them then its not worth it right?
Haiz..that being said..I think it can't be helped, these things will happen again..maybe we can blame it on horoscope or perhaps each other.
Still got 2 tutorials to prepare for tommorrow..sianz..
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"Decisiveness is a characteristic of high-performing men and
women. Almost any decision is better than no decision at all."
*Brian Tracy {American Trainer, Speaker, Author & Businessman}
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